Setting Client Boundaries Without the Guilt (Because Your Energy Matters)

Are you setting boundaries with your clients, love?

This might be hard to do because often times you’ll feel like you’re being "mean" or "unprofessional", especially if you’re not used to doing it!

Here's the truth - your energy is your most valuable asset in business. 

Every time you bend your boundaries to please a client, you're making a withdrawal from your energetic bank account. So they may end up being happy that you’re working on weekends to get their work completed… but what is that costing you?

According to Harvard Business Review, 76% of service providers experience significant stress from poor client boundaries. 

But here's what's fascinating - when you actually set clear boundaries, client satisfaction increases by 47%. 

HOW? And why? 

Because when you're not burned out, you show up as your highest self and deliver your best work. IT IS ALL ENERGY!

Your boundaries aren't just about protecting your time - they're about preserving your ability to show up fully for your soul-aligned clients.

Think about it: Would you rather work with a healer/coach/mentor who's always available but energetically drained, or someone who's refreshed, aligned, and fully present during your sacred container together?

Here's what I teach my private clients about creating boundaries that feel good for both you and your client:

Get crystal clear on your working hours

–– Define your power hours for client work. For example, my business bestie runs her business strictly from 9am - 5pm and she usually shuts her laptop a little early depending on how busy or slow the day is.

–– Or keep them UNDEFINED so clients aren’t asking you when/if something is done! That’s what it currently looks like for me. As a mom of a 3 year old, with my husband and I both running businesses, our schedules are always unpredictable. So my clients understand that sometimes, I’ll send them their copy at 2am when I feel like working (btw, I’ve always been a night owl 🦉)

Create a clear container in your contracts

–– Response time expectations (24-48 hours is my sweet spot) and don’t forget to let them know about holidays and vacations!

–– Preferred communication channels (pick ones that preserve your energy)

–– Rush fees for urgent requests (I suggest 150% of your regular rate)

Lead with love, not guilt

–– Remember: boundaries are a form of self-love AND client love

–– You're modeling healthy business practices for you AND your clients

Remember this: You are not here to be available 24/7. You are here to be of service and that requires energetic protection!! 

The next time you feel guilty about setting a boundary, ask yourself: "Am I honoring my highest self and my clients' highest good with this choice?"

Your boundaries are not just professional standards - they're energetic containers that allow your magic to flow freely. Honor them accordingly.

xx Keshani